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Feminists for Life's 2012 issue of The American Feminist focuses on "Hard Cases, Exceptional Choices." FFL President Serrin M. Foster answers the most controversial and important questions of our day including "What about rape--including statutory rape, incest and rape--disability, and life of the mother?" Following the questions are firsthand accounts by Remarkable Pro-Life Women® who faced life's toughest questions. The 36-page special issue includes thought provoking ads in English and Spanish, about children with special needs, and of a woman conceived in rape. Join FFL NOW to receive both "Hard Cases, Exceptional Choices" and "Pro-Woman Answers to Pro-Choice Questions." |  |

Julia Schoch
Some women who become pregnant
after being raped are coerced or
pressured to abort, or may feel an
obligation to abort. My daughter
whom I adopted was conceived in
rape. Her birthmother was only 13
years old. She said she was told by the
abortion clinic staff that “no one will
want a biracial, rapist’s baby.” They
refused to let her see the ultrasound
picture and, although she was 20
weeks pregnant, told her that her
baby wasn’t formed yet. They also
told her that she was “too young” and
would die if she tried to have the baby.
She gave in, believing she would die
trying to have a baby no one would
even want. The doctor began a
second-trimester abortion under only
local anesthesia. They never explained
fetal development, the procedure,
risks, options, etc. She was in so
much pain that the doctor stopped
and rescheduled the abortion, telling
her mom to bring more money for
general anesthesia because “she is
making my job too difficult.” She then
got accurate information and took a
stand for her unborn daughter. Her
attempted abortion was not a cavalier
decision; she was only offered an
uneducated and coerced “choice.”
She believed the shame wasn’t in
aborting, but that the shame would
be in having a “rapist’s baby.” They
made her feel like it was wrong and
dangerous to even consider giving
birth to a baby conceived in rape.
I was in the room when my daughter
was born; the birthmother’s older
sister was her labor coach. It
was an amazing experience. The
birthmother’s own mother, who
initially wanted that baby aborted,
instantly fell in love with this little girl. I
honestly think people were expecting
the baby to have horns or to be a minirapist.
Yet out comes this fat-cheeked,
curly-haired little thing with the
prettiest green eyes—everyone was
crying tears of joy! I went straight to
the young birthmother and just held
her and cried. I said, “You did it! You
did it! She is here!” She replied, “Thank
you! You were right. She is worth it.”
Never at any time was her unborn baby
any less human, innocent, alive, and
worthy of being treated with dignity
and respect than a child conceived
in a deliberate act of love. She was
and is a precious little girl who is
loved and wanted regardless of the
circumstances of her conception,
her race, her status, or her abilities.
The abortion attempt left her with
challenges she will face for the rest
of her life. Her birthmother is also
very much alive and we love her so
much. She loves her daughter and
getting to watch her growing up.
The point is, the unborn are equally
living humans regardless of how
they were conceived. Abortion—all
abortions—kill innocent humans.
It isn’t like abortions on women
who accidentally became pregnant
kill babies, while abortions that
“terminate a pregnancy” that is a
result of rape somehow don’t kill an
actual human baby. Either the unborn
are living humans or they are not.
And either all innocent humans are
deserving of the right to life, or they
are not. Personally, I refuse to accept
discrimination against little ones like
my daughter.
Julia Schoch is the Director of Respond
to Life, a Christian pro-life organization
dedicated
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